Here is the most obvious nugget of knowledge ever: Having kids drastically changes your life. Priorities change. Your focus changes. And how you spend a large amount of your time changes. Often, couples who have children put their relationship on the backburner by necessity. They have to make sure their kids’ needs are met. That they are successful in their jobs so they can continue to provide for their now-larger family. That they at least marginally maintain their own health so they can actually do all of those things. Only after all that is their relationship a real consideration. As...
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