danacole, Author at Dana Cole, LMFT

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June 17,2022

Change Your Language, Change Your Relationship

Have you ever wondered how some conversations with your partner can descend into bickering so quickly? It’s true that conflict...

May 11,2022

You’ve heard the adage “Pick your battles,” but that can go out the window when your partner leaves dishes in...

April 11,2022

“Click.” A door closing as you retreat to separate rooms. A remote turning on the TV to fill the silence....

March 16,2022

What does "build love" mean? Sometimes we get caught on a very specific way that love “should” look. This can...

February 24,2022

Instagram might convince you otherwise, but every couple experiences ups and downs in their relationship. You know what it feels...

January 12,2022

“Sorry I forgot to pick up your prescription…” “I didn’t mean it like that…” If you’re in a relationship –...

December 15,2021

If you’re reading this right now, you’re probably invested in creating the healthiest, most positive relationship possible. And while every...

November 16,2021

You and your partner have gone to therapy. You’ve attended workshops. You make an effort to practice Imago dialogue. You’ve...

October 13,2021

Imago therapy offers many effective tools to improve your relationship, whether married, long-term, or just starting to get serious (before...

September 14,2021

In the heat of marriage conflict, you may find it difficult to imagine that energy leading anywhere constructive. (more…)